Saturday, June 18, 2011

You Can Teach an Old Dog New Tricks

I have to say bloggies, no matter how much weight was lost in the past, I still continue to learn so much along this journey of weight loss.  I had been a POINTS counter in the past and I had flip flopped many times trying to count calories instead but for some reason it never stuck. But this time bloggies, THIS time, it has stuck. And it's working.

The lessons I have learned so far this time around is not about calories in v. calories out. That part is obvious. And it's not about learning how to eat healthy because I was already there.  But even though I somehow managed to keep up the pace to lose an entire person the first time around, I still always struggled with being "thrown off" course due to a single circumstance, meal or day.  The proverbial "wrench" that inevitably gets thrown in the way. You know, life. Getting discouraged and feeling like my day or week was somehow "wrote off" due to some particular reason was a common occurrence.

I have learned how to accept less than perfect, to be more realistic about life as a mother trying to balance healthy eating & activity conducive to weight loss and to realize that any day where I've stayed under my maintenance calorie range is still progress. It doesn't have to be 1200 net calories because in general, I have been in the 1500-1600 range and if that is more realistic for me, then I'm ok with a slower rate of loss because this is where it has gotten me so far:

MyFitnessPal - Free Weight Loss Tools

At the time of posting this, the ticker says 25 lbs! Since it is dynamic, it will change as my progress changes even a year from now. I'm on my way "all the way" again and that's a fact.  

However, I'm not so sure I'm going to beat my husband in this competition we're having because he, my friends, is a force to be wreckoned with. He's doing amazing and at tomorrow's weigh-in, he expects to hit is 30 lbs lost milestone which I couldn't possibly express to you how happy that makes me. He's really taken his health seriously and has 100% committed himself to getting healthy.  He's feeling wonderful, has lost at least half of his "beer belly" where he carries 80% of his weight (a very dangerous place to carry extra weight!) and notices huge changes in his stamina and fitness level. This is MY HUSBAND we are talking about! I'm floored and extremely happy & proud :-)

I'm not even sure who still reads this little blog, but whoever is still out there, I appreciate your readership and not giving up on me and my sparse blogging. I can't explain why I haven't been blogging regularly other than the good ol' "busy mom" excuse, but maybe that's best left for another day...

21 comments:

Gonna Be Healthy said...

I still read :)

You are doing awesome! As is your husband :)

hrclark said...

It's great that hubby and you are doing so well! Keep it up!

Kay said...

You are an inspiration and I'm so happy for your family that hubby has jumped on board, too! Even sparse blogging is better than none! So enjoy your blog! Thanks for sharing even in this VERY busy time of your life.

Marisa @ Loser for Life said...

I'm still reading, Angie!!! And so very, very happy for you! You are an inspiration :)

H-woman said...

Whoo hoo! Congratulations, Angie!!

=)

Tricia said...

congrats to you and your hubby

Janna said...

YEAH ANGIE! Look at you two GO...so proud of you...thank you for being a great example!

And I love the start of the new look...

Have a great weekend!

Sarah said...

So happy for you and your family. Thank you for sharing. I look forward to reading about your future success.

Vanessa said...

YEEEEEEAH! You are amazing. Keep up the good work! :D

sarah said...

I still read and I am so happy for you!! YOU inspired me to start counting calories. You, Amy and Lynn. You're so awesome!! Keep up the great work my friend. You're going to be back to your goal weight in no time.

Do you think your hubby can talk to my hubby? Because, like your man, mine carries his weight in the belly, too. And I worry. A LOT about him.

rusty61 said...

I'm glad things are going so well for you and your husband! I also love your new blog layout!

Angie All The Way said...

Thank you my friends, truly means a lot :-)

marlieben said...

I still read too.
Congrats on yours and your husband's losses. Thanks to you I rejoined MFP 2 months ago and as of this morning my ticker read 12 lbs gone. Like you I do have not so good days but there is something about that site and the motivational people there that makes you just pick yourself up and go at it again. It has helped me too to keep going with exercising 'cause I have been known to slack up on that when things weren't going my way in the past. You are an inspiration!!!!!

MB said...

So happy to hear about you and your husband's progress. Weight loss competitions between men and woman are unfair. Blogging has to take a backseat to baby. Keep up the good work and update when you can. Rock on!

Nancy said...

I still read your blog. You are doing fantastic. It is very inspiring that you are able to focus on this while having such a young boy to look after. I continue to read and offer support to you on MFP while hoping I can tap into your success for myself.

Christy said...

You two are both doing amazing! It must be nice to have someone at home who's just as motivated and "into it" as you are!

Amber said...

Awesome!! Way to go on your weight loss!

runningonwords said...

Congrats, you are an inspiration!

Kara said...

Great job! I read that every pound lost takes off 40lbs of pressure on your knees when you run, so well done :)

JavaChick said...

Congrats to both you and your husband Angie! Wish I could get my husband to take his health that seriously.

redcoat37 said...

I find you more inspiring than ever. Has to be the juggling of motherhood and reality of taking care of someone else first that puts things in perspective. You always seem to say the right things, just when I need to hear it.