The lessons I have learned so far this time around is not about calories in v. calories out. That part is obvious. And it's not about learning how to eat healthy because I was already there. But even though I somehow managed to keep up the pace to lose an entire person the first time around, I still always struggled with being "thrown off" course due to a single circumstance, meal or day. The proverbial "wrench" that inevitably gets thrown in the way. You know, life. Getting discouraged and feeling like my day or week was somehow "wrote off" due to some particular reason was a common occurrence.
I have learned how to accept less than perfect, to be more realistic about life as a mother trying to balance healthy eating & activity conducive to weight loss and to realize that any day where I've stayed under my maintenance calorie range is still progress. It doesn't have to be 1200 net calories because in general, I have been in the 1500-1600 range and if that is more realistic for me, then I'm ok with a slower rate of loss because this is where it has gotten me so far:
MyFitnessPal - Free Weight Loss Tools
At the time of posting this, the ticker says 25 lbs! Since it is dynamic, it will change as my progress changes even a year from now. I'm on my way "all the way" again and that's a fact.
However, I'm not so sure I'm going to beat my husband in this competition we're having because he, my friends, is a force to be wreckoned with. He's doing amazing and at tomorrow's weigh-in, he expects to hit is 30 lbs lost milestone which I couldn't possibly express to you how happy that makes me. He's really taken his health seriously and has 100% committed himself to getting healthy. He's feeling wonderful, has lost at least half of his "beer belly" where he carries 80% of his weight (a very dangerous place to carry extra weight!) and notices huge changes in his stamina and fitness level. This is MY HUSBAND we are talking about! I'm floored and extremely happy & proud :-)
I'm not even sure who still reads this little blog, but whoever is still out there, I appreciate your readership and not giving up on me and my sparse blogging. I can't explain why I haven't been blogging regularly other than the good ol' "busy mom" excuse, but maybe that's best left for another day...

21 comments:
I still read :)
You are doing awesome! As is your husband :)
It's great that hubby and you are doing so well! Keep it up!
You are an inspiration and I'm so happy for your family that hubby has jumped on board, too! Even sparse blogging is better than none! So enjoy your blog! Thanks for sharing even in this VERY busy time of your life.
I'm still reading, Angie!!! And so very, very happy for you! You are an inspiration :)
Whoo hoo! Congratulations, Angie!!
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congrats to you and your hubby
YEAH ANGIE! Look at you two GO...so proud of you...thank you for being a great example!
And I love the start of the new look...
Have a great weekend!
So happy for you and your family. Thank you for sharing. I look forward to reading about your future success.
YEEEEEEAH! You are amazing. Keep up the good work! :D
I still read and I am so happy for you!! YOU inspired me to start counting calories. You, Amy and Lynn. You're so awesome!! Keep up the great work my friend. You're going to be back to your goal weight in no time.
Do you think your hubby can talk to my hubby? Because, like your man, mine carries his weight in the belly, too. And I worry. A LOT about him.
I'm glad things are going so well for you and your husband! I also love your new blog layout!
Thank you my friends, truly means a lot :-)
I still read too.
Congrats on yours and your husband's losses. Thanks to you I rejoined MFP 2 months ago and as of this morning my ticker read 12 lbs gone. Like you I do have not so good days but there is something about that site and the motivational people there that makes you just pick yourself up and go at it again. It has helped me too to keep going with exercising 'cause I have been known to slack up on that when things weren't going my way in the past. You are an inspiration!!!!!
So happy to hear about you and your husband's progress. Weight loss competitions between men and woman are unfair. Blogging has to take a backseat to baby. Keep up the good work and update when you can. Rock on!
I still read your blog. You are doing fantastic. It is very inspiring that you are able to focus on this while having such a young boy to look after. I continue to read and offer support to you on MFP while hoping I can tap into your success for myself.
You two are both doing amazing! It must be nice to have someone at home who's just as motivated and "into it" as you are!
Awesome!! Way to go on your weight loss!
Congrats, you are an inspiration!
Great job! I read that every pound lost takes off 40lbs of pressure on your knees when you run, so well done :)
Congrats to both you and your husband Angie! Wish I could get my husband to take his health that seriously.
I find you more inspiring than ever. Has to be the juggling of motherhood and reality of taking care of someone else first that puts things in perspective. You always seem to say the right things, just when I need to hear it.
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